In our second in the series The Journey of Wholeness, meditation teacher & therapist Alex Boianghu and I discuss the mystery of consciousness and how the mystery of the immaterial world informs and creates our material experience.

Our immaterial, infinite being in its desire to have a particular experience, manifests a vessel for this experience—a body and a life as a vehicle of experience. You and I, and the container of our lives, are vehicles for the particular experience that our unmanifested Being desires.

The joy and magic of life is to remember this fundamental relationship, and to enjoy the unfolding of this experience rather than try to control it or judge it—both of which lead to existential suffering.   

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As you rest in the experience of oneness with your Beingness, you naturally begin to align your life experience with the desires of your Beingness, which helps life to flow more easily and eliminates existential suffering.

The “manifestor” in your life is Beingness; it attracts & magnetizes the situations, interests, people, opportunities and circumstances of your life, not your egoic self. Your egoic self chooses how to respond to what comes, but it does not determine what comes. Trying to create a life with the egoic self in charge creates suffering and disappointment.  

The body is an operating system and it operates via the conditioning and contraction it has learned. Addictions are management systems to relieve the body of the suffering caused by contraction and conditioning; without addressing the underlying contraction, one “fixed” addiction will just lead to another

The discomfort of contraction is a doorway to exploring where we are split off from Beingness, and a road to reunification with Beingness and your true, whole nature.

The joy of life is the creative expression of Beingness, not the “doing” that we are conditioned to value and prioritize. How many important things have simply come to you, outside of the “doing” you engaged in to create a certain outcome?

Alex Boianghu is a dedicated and gifted therapist with over 30 years of study and practice. He uses an integrative approach to therapy, emphasizing psycho-spiritual growth grounded in somatic therapy’s focus on the unity of body and mind.

Alex is trained in EMDR, a technique used to help people process and resolve trauma successfully. He is also a gifted couple’s therapist, assisting the partners to reach deep levels of awareness and compassion. With compassion and discernment, Alex guides and models how to positively harness the psycho-dynamic energies we all possess to rediscover our common and innate holistic nature.

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Meditation Course Info

Bonus Meditation!

Alex’s gift to you is a meditation that helps you embody wholeness & beingness in the energy centers (chakras) of the body, to help you embody your wholeness and beingness in all parts of your body, being and life. 

EXPAND Your EDGE Pendulum Play!

If you have taken the EXPAND Your EDGE course, remember to use what you learned to expand what in this conversation pushed your edge. Also, here are some other ways to use your pendulum to play with the energies in this conversation to expand your consciousness. Still need the course? Access it for HERE

Increase my awareness of my Beingness in my daily life 

Expand my awareness of where and how I focus on conditioned content

Expand my ability to be in my present moment beingness

Expand my ability to choose beingness over habitual behavior

Increase my awareness of how I use habit and addiction to keep from feeling the discomfort of contraction

Neutralize anywhere I am operating from conditioning or contraction

Increase my awareness of how the experience of contraction impacts my life, thoughts, emotions and body

Increase my ability and willingness to let go of conditioning and contraction

Increase my willingness to be a whole being and live from wholeness